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Lucid Dreaming
I have long been fascinated by lucid dreaming. I recently experienced it firsthand, and as I processed it, I found a surprising parallel to a strategy I often discuss with my clients. In a lucid dream, you become aware that you are dreaming, and once you gain this awareness, you can control the dream. In
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The Mirage of the Mountain Biker
Soon after I arrived in Santa Fe, I met a lovely couple in the Historic Town of Lamy named Kris and Pat. They are runners and had recently purchased mountain bikes. They were incredibly enthusiastic and encouraged me to get one, highly recommending a particular store and salesperson to work with. Mountain biking was one
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Magical Gateways
In the current chapter of my life, one prominent shift has been my relationship with science and mysticism. For most of my life, I described myself as a Child of Modernity. If science could not prove it, I was highly skeptical. Over the past few years, my way of being has shifted. Now my default
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Reliability
One of my most read articles is on a framework for making effective requests. It’s a powerful technique I learned in my ontological coaching, where being more specific and clear with our language can create a culture where everyone is more productive because they can rely on others to manage their commitments proactively. I’ve shared
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The Master and His Emissary
In The Master and His Emissary: The Divided Brain and the Making of the Western World, psychiatrist and philosopher Dr. Iain McGilchrist uses a fable to illustrate his central thesis about the human brain’s two hemispheres. In the fable, a wise Master governs a domain with the help of a trusted Emissary. The Master sees
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Rest
The need to rest is a fundamental aspect of our design. Many of us look for ways to overcome this “limitation.” I, for one, dearly love caffeine, preferring espresso as an efficient delivery mechanism. We admire people we see who manage to get by on a few hours’ sleep a night. Our scarcity mindsets lead
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Elevating Consciousness
When I rebuilt my website a few years ago, I wanted the home page to read “Accelerating the evolution of human consciousness.” My trusted friends advised me this was too grandiose, and I settled for something less ambitious. And yet, that phrase authentically captures my soul’s purpose. It has evolved a bit since that time.
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The Box
If you are like me, the metaphor, “Think outside the box,” has lost its metaphor. When I hear the phrase, my brain doesn’t imagine a box, with me in it, stepping outside, or anything of the sort. It just automatically translates the phrase to “Be creative and innovative.” It’s a shame because I find it
